Material obesity or experientialism

Due to the Industrial revolution and mass production objects became widely available and affordable. Thrift was replaced by enthusiastic consumerism. This over consumption in society was a bare necessity for economic growth.   
Nowadays the individual and society suffer from the excess, which results in mobility problems, climate change, credit crisis and stagnation of the economic growth.
Too many possessions distract the mind and crowded rooms have an effect on our peace of mind.

Neuro anthropologist John Allen from the University of Southern California declared that our living space is strongly linked to the view on ourselves. The reorganization of our house gives us the feeling we can change our lives. 

There's a need for cultural shifting: to switch over from a high living standard to better quality of life. With material obesity causing stress, a return to the simple life lived in the middle seems to be the essence.  Temperentia is the moderate means between asceticism and indulgence. 

The essence of life is to be found in the essence of existence(from Latin existere): the experience, the conscious knowledge that derives from personal activity and practice. Inner experiences are reflections, sensory experiences are sensations. The empiricists were guided by experience, to them the sole source of knowledge.

Professor of psychology Daniel Gilbert from Harvard University says experiences make us happy because we first look forward to them, then we're glad to go through them to eventually be left with lovely recollections.

German philosopher Immanuel Kant(1724-1804) believed all knowledge is related to experience, without experience knowledge becomes impossible. Sensory perception and reason as the highest cognitive ability should go hand in hand. His writings focused on critical thinking with the use of self criticism to find truth and enlightenment in ourselves. 

Danish thinker Sören Aaby Kierkegaard(1813-1855) gave a new meaning to existence. The founder of existentialism analysed human existence as a reality one should experience instead of a problem to be solved. After Kierkegaard existentialist philosophy, with historical roots in Greek philosophy, was further developed by Sartre, Camus, Marcel and Heidegger, whose existence precedes the essence.

Maslow's fully functioning individual is open to new experiences, people and ideas, for life in general. A healthy individual experiences as a child, wisely using his organism. With his open personality and self knowledge he applies his experience to observe and express himself. 

To be intensely involved in the experience of life, its fulfilments and predicaments, is the best way to live consciously. Simplicity helps to maintain the equilibrium of avoiding extremes. Interpersonal relationships colour our lives

Pleasant experiences enrich life, matter can not in long term.
Quality before quantity, or simplified: less is more. 

What a man CAN be, he MUST be: reflections on self- actualization

Ann Timmermans

Happiness is in there, only to be found internally as it is a state of mind. Instead of blaming others or trying to change the world around us, we should change our minds to develop a positive mental condition. True happiness and complete independence are results of self-realization, of psychological growth and maturation.

( Guru ft Roy Ayers: Take a look at yourself: "Step back, analyze and use your own eyes to see. I can't be you, you can't be me. For your problems you can't blame no one else.")

Introspection( from Latin intro spicere: to look within), the technique of self-observing and examining inner activities, of reflecting on your memories, emotions and thoughts is the indispensable chief psychological method of learning about and of recognizing conscious and non- conscious mental processes. Briefly the key to knowing the true self. 

(Black Star K.O.S: "We keep it balanced with that knowledge of self determination. Knowledge of self is like life after death with that you never worry about your last breath. At exactly which point do you start to realize that life without knowledge is death in disguise. Knowledge of self determination. Stand in Ovation, cause you put the hue in human. Cause and effect, effect everything you do and that's why I got love in the face of hate") .

Self-reflection leads to better future actions and motivates to live up to one's own internal standards. 

( A Tribe called Quest The Remedy: Q Tip: "We all got different things we got to deal with. Sometimes I think people always want to put the blame on something else instead of looking at ourselves. But if we look within ourselves, we can prevent a lot of this nonsense sometimes. It's about relating back to the essence".)

The humanistic movement believed that humans are unique individuals who should be recognized and treated as such.

American humanistic psychologists Abraham Maslow and Carl Rogers developed and emphasized the psychological concept of self-actualization, which is a process of growing and developing as a person to fully use and exploit talents, to maximize individual potential, to become actually what one is potentially.

According to Rogers people evaluate experiences as positive if they enhance self-actualization and tend to seek these positive experiences.

Maslow described self-actualization as: " A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be at peace with his self. What a man CAN be, he MUST be". 

(Aloe Blacc: I'm beautiful: I'm gonna be the best me that I know how to be)

He believed that self-actualization is not just a human capacity but the highest human need in a hierarchy of needs. A hierarchy of five classes of needs( physiological needs, safety, belongingness and love, esteem and self-actualization) influence human behaviour.

As most people are preoccupied with what they do not have( deficiency orientation), Maslow advised to focus on what they do have(growth orientation). This orientation opens the door to personality growth and peak experiences, inspiring moments of intense joy, love, understanding and ecstasy. 

Maslow's The Farther Reaches of Human Nature( 1971) describes the eight ways in which individuals self-actualize.

1. Concentration: to experience fully, vividly, selflessly.

2. Growth choices: each decision is a choice of growth, to open yourself to
    new and challenging experiences

3. self-awareness: self-consciousness: know yourself. Take responsibility for
    your own negative mood, recognize feelings. Give a direction to your own
    development

4. Honesty: essential elements in self-actualizing are honesty and taking
    responsibilities for your actions

5. Judgment: follow your instincts

6. self-development: use your abilities and intelligence

7. peak experiences: think, act, feel clearly and accurately, more loving and
    accepting of others

8. lack of ego defences: drop them when appropriate

Self-actualized people have accurate realistic perceptions of themselves and the world around them, are motivated to help others. They tend to be open, unconventional and spontaneous, have a philosophical sense of humour and form very deep ties with only a few people. They need their independence and privacy. Self-fulfilled individuals have a childlike and fresh creativity and inventiveness.

Bear in mind that self-actualization is a never-ending process of making potential real. Try to see life clearly, utilize your capacities joyfully. Even simple experiences will be sources of inspiration and pleasure.

(Jurassic Five: Work it out: " Now if I know what I know you need to work it out. If you ain't happy with yourself you need to work it out.")

Article written by Ann Timmermans